It's a horrible feeling to still be in love with a guy and not know if that is how he feels about you. It's a conflicting thing, because on the one hand, it does feel good to love someone. However, if it feels like they do not love you back or if you are just so confused that you are not sure... well, that can feel bad. If you are still in love with a man and you really want to know if he is still in love with you, pay close attention. There are some ways that you can judge whether or not he feels the same way about you.
I do want to warn you, though. Even though these ways can be pretty accurate and can indicate how he really feels, they are not full proof. If he is a good actor, or he just knows how to play games, then it can seem like he does still love you, when the truth is that he really does not. So, keep that in mind, as much as it sucks to have to do that, because you don't want to get your hopes up only to get them dashed really quickly.
So, what are some ways that you can tell if a guy still loves you?
1. If he still makes an effort to get in touch with you on a regular or semi regular basis, this can be a sign that he does still love you.
Just the fact that he makes that effort says something usually. Don't confuse him getting in touch with you for a quick romp to mean that he loves you, though. This is something that can end up causing you to make a bad decision or to end up feeling broken hearted down the line. His efforts have to be more than just so that he can get physical with you if you want to know if he does still feel that way about you.
2. He seems like he gets nervous when you talk to him or see him.
If he shows obvious signs of being nervous around you or even in just talking with you, then this can mean that he still cares deeply for you. Many men feel really nervous when they are harboring deep feelings for a woman, and this can show in pretty obvious ways. Fiddling with his hands, pacing back and forth, a change in his vocal tone, all of these things can be an indication that you make him nervous and that can be a good thing.
3. He wants you to be proud of him.
This is one of those things that a lot of women often overlook, but when a guy is still in love with a woman, he usually wants her to be proud of him. So, if he seems to want you to feel this way, then that can be a good indication. Does it seem like he wants to tell you about his little accomplishments and he is looking for positive feedback from you? If so, then he probably does still care about you and your opinion of him probably means a lot to him.