Saturday, 30 July 2011

How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You - Attract An Amazing Man

Are you a woman who is looking for a great guy to have a fulfilling long-term relationship with - even marriage? If so, do you know how to make a man fall in love with you? It is vital that you do, otherwise you will most likely waste your best years either being single or in number of relationships that don't end up going anywhere. And throughout this process you will probably be telling all your friends that men are impossible.

In this article I'm going to give you a few quick, but very powerful pointers on how to make a man fall in love with you so that you won't need to be alone for much longer. If you apply these guidelines in your life and the way you interact with men, you should be able to draw in someone amazing and cause him to develop really deep feelings for you. But an important thing to mention is that you must satisfy each of the three criteria below. Two out of the three is not enough.

So let's begin! For a man to fall in love with you:

1. He must find you sexually attractive

The truth is that it is not possible for a man to fall in love with you if he does not find you sexually attractive. That's just how it is. No amount of being a nice person, doing things for a man, or being happy and positive will compensate for a lack of sexual attraction.

So what will make him sexually attracted to you? The key things are self-esteem, confidence, and femininity. In addition to these, being physically attractive sure doesn't hurt, although you certainly don't require model looks to turn a man on.

2. He must love your heart, mind and personality

Although it is extremely important for a man to view you as a sexually attractive woman, this in and of itself is not sufficient. This is because it will only cause him to want to sleep with you (and nothing more). The process of how to make a man fall in love with you also requires that he love the person you are on the inside: your heart, mind and personality. Your heart is your feeling part (eg. what motivates you?; and do you have empathy and compassion for others?) Your mind encompasses your intellect and how you mentally process information. Finally, your personality is an umbrella term for a number of different things including where you fit on the introvert/extrovert spectrum, the ways in which you express yourself, and your disposition.

The heart, mind and personality are three areas that many women don't pay nearly enough attention to. This is a huge reason why most women don't have any luck finding love in the bar and club scene. They usually go to great effort and expense in making themselves look as sexually attractive as possible, and then they only seem to attract two types of men: rowdy club guys and players. The real problem is that the environment is sexually charged and very superficial to begin with, and doesn't permit people to show the deeper sides of themselves. It would far more productive for women to find other places to meet men where they have opportunities to show off their true selves rather than just their bodies.

3. You need to make him feel great about himself

The third factor in how to make a man fall in love with you, is that you must make him feel great about himself, cause him to become addicted to this feeling, and establish a clear connection in his mind linking it to you.

The secret to these things is in making him feel like a man (ie. masculine) when he is around you. In order to do this you must make him feel strong, in control, approved of, appreciated, respected, trusted and needed by you. A man needs these things from you just as much as you need to feel beautiful and desirable to him. They are probably even more important to him than his desire for physical intimacy.

You cause a man to feel these things through your words, body language, and actions. For example, you make him feel masculine when you praise him for the good job that he did, smile regularly at him, and when you follow his leading without trying to interfere (eg. by nagging, giving him reminders, and attempting to take over from him). On the other hand, you cause him to feel less masculine when you criticize him, frown at him frequently, and when you refuse to follow his lead and interfere in ways such as those that I mentioned above.

I hope that this article has been useful in explaining how to make a man fall in love with you. And to learn a lot more about this topic, I strongly suggest that you go to my website and take a look at some of the 30+ articles that I have written on attracting men and relationships etc. I also highly recommend that you check out Kara Oh's excellent book Men Made Easy, which I have written a review for here: Kara Oh Review.

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