3 Ways Men Show Their Love Through Actions

A man who really loves you will tell you that he loves it and he will also show it. A man who says that he loves you but whose actions do not love you is probably stringing you along. But how can you know that a man loves you with his actions. What are the ways that men show their love through actions?

I. He loves you with his time. Men show love by the way they use their time. A man who loves you will make the effort to spend time with you and it will be premium time and not left-over time.

a. Left-over time is time when he has nothing else to do after he has done all the things that are important to him. Left-over time is thus time when he is looking to get a need met after he has spent himself with everything and everyone that he has prioritized above you. He will meet with you only when it is convenient for him and thus he will only call when he is bored or when he has nothing better to do. He will be unavailable to you when you need him since you are low on his priorities. He will be available to you only at his discretion and you just cannot predict his availability to you. If you are in love with him then you will often have to change your schedule around when he is available as he will not be available when you need him or when he tells you as other things more important than you will pop up and that's what he will focus on. Does your man only spend time with you when he has nothing better to do? Are you low on his time priority so that you get him only after everything and everybody else? Then he does not love you; he may like you or like some aspects of you but he does not love you!

b. Premium time is time when he is not exhausted from other activities and it is time where he gives up other things or people for you. He has prioritized you in his life and so you can rely on him. He is available when he promises and he calls when he says he will call. You can tell that he has given up other things and people to spend time with you. If he gives you premium time then he loves you.

II. He loves you with his strength. Men show love using their strength and what they do with their strength and energy. In today's society most men spend their strength and energy earning money. Does he spend significant amounts of his money on you and your relationship? If he does then he loves you. Remember the saying 'where a man's heart is where his treasure lies'? It simply means that a man will invest his money on what his heart loves and treasures. If he is not spending his money on you then he is either unsure of your role in his life or he simply doesn't treasure you.

III. He loves you with his mind. A man who loves you will love you intelligently. He will think through what you say to him and he will use his creativity to show you that he loves you. He will do thoughtful things for you and he will love you creatively. He will put thought into the things he does for you and in what he says to you. What he does for you or say may sometimes be inappropriate but that may be a result of his socialization and not his lack of love for you. Try and understand whether he loves you with his mind but is limited by his socialization so that you don't misunderstand him.

Men show their love through all that they are and have. Does he love you in the 3 key ways? If he does then rest easy as he really loves you. He may not love you well in all three areas but if you notice that he is making an effort then find a way to gently guide him in the right direction so that you both reap the maximum benefits from each other.

For more signs of a men in love check out use these 5 ways men show love to assure yourself that your man truly loves you but if you keep getting upset by the inappropriate things he does as he tries to love you then I strongly recommend these relationship must ask questions to help you both get to know him better so that you can love each other more appropriately and practically.

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2 Amazing Ways to Discover True Love (And The UNUSUAL Secret To Finding Your Soulmate FAST)

Does true love leave clues? Can you really tell if a man is the "one" without asking, sounding desperate or embarrassing yourself for answers? And do we EACH have a soulmate, or spiritual partner we were born to meet, marry and discover authentic happiness with, or is that a fairy tale that only happens in books, or the movies and NOT in real life?
In this article we are going to take a quick, easy and UNUSUAL look at how you can tell if a man really loves you... but without having to do anything that clues him in that you REALLY want to know! Sound interesting? If so... continue reading as we take a closer look immediately below!
But BEFORE we begin... understand THIS to be true. (because it is)
As a love "empath" or emotional intuitive, I TRULY believe that we all have a spiritual partner that is interwoven into the fabric of our life story. I believe in (and have experienced) the beauty of a karmic connection that transcends lifetimes... and that brings together partners in AMAZING ways that you truly wouldn't believe unless you saw them up close!
So my advice, and my "advantage" so to speak, when helping women find a soulmate comes from a very different place, and a very unique perspective! (which I'll shed a little bit of light on below)
1 - His AURA tells the tale:
Believe it or not, LOVE emits an aura, or an energy that can be read, interpreted and understood by anyone sensitive enough to see it. And when a man is truly in love, his energy body will often say FAR more about how he feels about YOU, than his physical body will. (of course, in certain situations, you can tell from that, too;-) In other words, a man with a strong, rich vibrational aura is USUALLY in love with "someone"... and a good emotional empath can almost ALWAYS tell you with who! (especially if it's YOU!)
2 - The Karma of the Cosmos
Yes, I know that sounds hokey, but I truly believe that YOUR story is written well before you arrive. Each of us has a higher path, and a higher purpose... and our destiny lies in aligning our actions with a path of PASSION, and the karma of connection. When you DO this, by tapping into the wellspring of truth that already lives deep within your being (and in the fabric of the universe itself) you allow yourself to ACTUALIZE that ideal life you are here to enjoy... and that includes, in a very big way, the people and life partner you love!
The key to finding your soul mate? Open yourself up to the power and the potential of what's possible. Stop thinking in terms of what's realistic, or what sounds far fetched or impossible. The truth is, no matter WHAT you believe, if you open yourself up to the possibility that there is ONE person, one special soul who is waiting for YOU to arrive in his life... you will be amazed at how magical that connection truly is, when it happens almost by "accident" thereafter!
And I've seen it happen in my own life AND in the lives of those around me more times to count. (and I'm hoping, if you've read this far... and really crave finding YOUR true love, it happens for you as well!)
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Desperate To Get Back The Ex?

If you are trying to get back the ex, there are a couple of surefire tips you can use to help getting your significant other back in your arms. These techniques will work, but you have to follow them in a step by step fashion. Don't waste your time trying these tips if you can't follow instructions or make a commitment. When it's time to get your ex back you need to get serious.

The biggest mistake for people trying to get back with ex girlfriends or boyfriends is that they get needy. You were dumped for a reason. If you think becoming an annoying, obnoxious, needy little pain in the butt is going to help you with getting your ex back you couldn't be more wrong.

The first step is to just relax. Seriously! How are you going to get your ex back if you are still worked up and crying? If you can't keep your head on straight, you're never going to get back with them. Take a break and sit down and relax. Chill out watching your favorite movie - and by that we don't mean the movie that both of you loved to watch together. Do something that is really just for you and get your head on straight.

After you have calmed down and are no longer terribly upset you can move on to step two. This may take a while and you may need to watch several movies or go out with your friends a few times. But after you are calm you can move on to step two. For most people this will be several days after the initial break up or the last time you had spoken to the ex. Step two is to contact your ex with the following message, "I'm glad we split up. I can see now why it wasn't working out for us and I am glad you are able to move on without me. I can't thank you enough for helping me see, clearly, that we were never meant to be. I have a few of your things I would like to give back to you."

It's best to leave this message on voice-mail or via Facebook. After they get the message they will contact you. Schedule a time for them to come over and get their "things." It doesn't matter if you really have any of their things or not. Make sure that when you schedule the time you tell them to plan on hanging around for a few minutes because you wanted to get a couple of other things out of the way before you part ways forever.

Now what all of this is doing is putting it into his or her mind that you are the one leaving the relationship. While they may pretend to feel relief, they will start to feel lonely and hurt. You are going to use this to your advantage when you get together.

When they come to pick up their things, make sure you have your favorite meal ready and your favorite movie or show playing on the television. Act surprised and say, "Oh, I forgot you were coming, I had just started making dinner for myself and was ready to eat. Sit down while we talk..."

Now it's up to you. You have the ex in the position where you can start getting him or her to remember all of the great things about your relationship. Ideally you finish this night with some intimate time together. If you want to get back the ex this is a surefire way to do it.

For tons of free information on how you can get your ex back, visit Get Back Your Ex Guide at http://relashionshipadvice.net/. Clifford is a retired Behavioral Science professor who now pursues counseling advice and is the owner of Relashionshipadvice, a directory of articles and tips for getting your ex back. Information such as this will help you to discover how to quickly get ex back.

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5 Tips for Saving a Broken Relationship

Relationships can be so complicated. And when relationships are broken, they can be so devastating. The reason is that God made us to be in relationships with each other. And we come to depend on those relationships more than anything else. When a relationship comes to an end it makes us feel incomplete and unattached. Our whole lives seem broken and out of control. It you are interested in saving a broken relationship, then here are a few guidelines to follow.

Number One

Never make the other person think that you are ending the relationship. Many people will do this to try to scare the other person into doing what they want them to do. This kind of tactic will only lead to the other person feeling that you will leave them on their own and it makes them feel insecure. Don't do or say anything to make the other person feel that you are about to end the relationship.

Number Two

Always keep the lines of communication open. This is very important. It just might be the most important thing of all. As long as there is communication between the two of you, there is hope. As long as you are talking to each other you can find a way to heal your relationship. When you continue to communicate you are letting the other person know that you respect them and their feelings and are willing to work things out. By continuing to talk to each other you are showing that you care about each other.

Number Three

Understand that relationships take work. Great relationships don't just happen. You have to work at it. The people you know who have great relationships are the ones who have really worked at it. There is no such thing as a relationship without problems. All relationships have bumps along the way but the really great ones are the ones where two people have decided that their love for each other is greater than their differences. Saving a broken relationship can take some work but it is absolutely possible to do it.

Number Four

The other person has a right to feel the way they do. Just because you don't see things the same as the other person doesn't mean that their feelings are not justified. If they feel hurt, there is a reason for that. Maybe the thing that is causing them to feel hurt wouldn't have caused you to be hurt, but that doesn't mean that they should not feel hurt about it. They are not the same as you and that is a good thing. We are all different and we all see things differently.

Number Five

Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill. In other words, don't blow things out of proportion. Don't put too much emphasis on the little things. You will never agree totally on everything. If you are concerned about saving a broken relationship, then focus on the things that really matter, the positive things in your relationship. When you look at all the great things you have together, then the little things lose their importance.

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The Myth About Love

Recently, I received a message from a person with whom I was once more intimate than I am now. The less intimate way of being is new though. In the space of that newness, while asking myself, "what now?" I found that the past has a way of creeping up on the present.

The two of us had a way of engaging each other through our Tumblr blogs. Tumblr is a blog format which engages images moreso than text. One of the hallmarks of our relationship was how we communicated with each other through these journals.

A message he sent me was,

I went into a space of wonder when I read those words. For indeed the word love was something I had "used" with him. But what truly held the space of awe in me was how I feel the message is simply a patent untruth.

I responded lovingly with

(You'll notice the hearts.) Hearts because indeed it was a 'screw you' in the midst of my love for him. (I just disagree with you vehemently my dear.)

Say Love More Than You Think You Should
My belief is that love is something we feel and say far too little. Love is something we put chains on: it has to mean this, look this way, be with this person. For Westerners in general, love cannot just "be." Culturally, 'love' is far too frightening; so frightening, in fact, that collectively, we often cannot even recognize the feeling in our bodies and spirits.

A Love Opportunity
As events continued to unfold, I found myself as greeter at an ecstatic dance class. I grooved to the music as people filed in. And with my dance and a smile, I said hello, asked them to sign in, and collected the donations. Thus, I found myself in the midst of an opportunity:

A chance to love every single person that walked through the door.
Whether it was my best girlfriends (with whom love is a given) or the three men, unrelated and unknown to each other, who were returning individually to the dance after a yearlong hiatus; or the crew that showed up early to set up and create the space.

Perhaps love was best expressed toward the older gentleman who has a degenerative hip disease and walks with a cane. Even with these disabilities he comes to dance every week. He enters slowly and painfully and sits down to watch. As he can, he gets up and dances a bit. And while his dance is full of careful movement and probably a bit of pain, he is dancing and he is loving it and us.

As I greeted them all with hugs, kisses, and "I'm glad you're here," I watched others take their dance to the people that entered and do the same. And in dancing with all - even the man with the hip pain - each and every person was engaged in the act of loving.

Express Your Love Every Day
The love in this community built the dance and the dance built the community of love. If we choose not to express our love, how can we build anything? At least anything with heart.

How can we relate to each other if we're not willing to dive into the great pool of love and truly feel it? Why wouldn't I say, "I love you," when I most assuredly do.

I love easily and I love often. Does it make my love less real? In my reality it most certainly does not.

At the end of each day, what I know is that we have each other and we have our integrity.

At the basis of both--for me--is a deep rooted love: love, love, love, love, love and on to infinity.

And I will tell each person I love that I love them. Life may be the longest thing we do, but it is far too short to not share the most precious of gifts we have to offer: our love.

Love Is Freedom
I will tell you "I love you," because it is the nature of love to be expressed. Love wants to dance, sing, pray, run, jump, play, and cavort & frolic. Love wants to bask in your presence. Love wants to tap you on the shoulder and give you a big hug. Essentially, love cannot be bound, because its essence is freedom.

Love should be applied generously and outrageously.

My love...knows that the only way to love is

whole-heartedly, without reservation

And with no regard for convention.

~Fors Miner Gregg

Love should be central to everything we do. And we should feel it far too often and say it way too much, because there really is no such thing as 'too often or too much' when it comes to love.

I Love You
So my sweet and goofy friend (you know who you are), love is one of the most powerful tools we have in our toolbox. It is the "duct tape" of Youniverse, except it doesn't bind; it frees us.

I love you. I always will.

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Why Is Love Always Complicated?

Most people who experience love can attest how painful and complicated it can be. Loving someone is about taking risks. It's like a roller coaster ride. It's a never-ending cycle of hurt and happiness. But why do we still love even though we already know the consequences of loving? Because loving gives us emotional fulfillment no matter how painful or heartbreaking the experience must have been. It gives us a sense that our lives are complete. Without it, we feel so alone and life becomes meaningless and not worth living for. It makes us believe that love conquers all.

So what is love really? It is a wonderful feeling that makes us go insane. It makes everything around us different. It makes our life colorful. It makes us appreciate things more. It makes us feel excited all the time and looks forward for tomorrow. It gives us a sense of fulfillment of being loved. It is a universal feeling that is unexplainable. It is a feeling that cannot be defined in a few words. It is an emotion that only love itself knows. It is a feeling that can be expressed to everyone in different ways. It is something we feel that occurs unexpectedly.

If it can be this wonderful then what makes it so complicated then? It is complicated because we make it that way. It is us that make it complicated when we love and the situation does not meet our expectations and it comes out in a negative way.

When we love, we tend to be selfish and want all the attentions focus to us. We always desire for more and never get contentment. When we love, we tend to have more demands and more expectations. We always have high expectations of our partners that sometimes lead to disappointments. We become jealous that is sometimes irrational. Our sanity will be lost when loving. We tend to be confused with our judgments. We let wrong become right and right be wrong. When we feel these negative emotions in us, we then tend to feel loved unfairly or emotionally abused that sometimes lead us to hurting the ones we love. We tend to hurt them by our actions or by what we say in situations we feel cheated by love.

Loving is not too complicated if it is inspired by love itself. Because if we love someone for other reasons of you having desires, lust or physical attractions, so don't expect the relationship will sail smoothly. Just as long as we love and not hurt them or make ourselves miserable then love is worth risking for.

Love should be handled with care because it may be just a strong emotion but it can be destructive.

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Transforming a Relationship Into a Soulmate Relationship

I have given many talks on the topic of soulmates and the first question people typically ask me is, 'what is a soulmate?' My answer is that soulmates are two people who are deeply in love with each other and are happy together on all levels - emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and sexually. But most importantly, soulmates are deeply committed to personal growth and support each other to reach this aim.

It is possible to transform your existing relationship into a soulmate relationship. The following case-study will show how to use higher-consciousness healing to achieve this aim.

Kare (32 years) came to see me because she was very unhappy in the relationship with her husband. They argued almost every day, their sexual relationship was non-existent and they both considered divorce. When I took Kate's case history she told me how her previous therapist had taught her to see the many ways she had been neglected by her parents. With tears in her eyes Kate reported that her father had never hugged her and that this was responsible for her current relationship problems. I explained to Kate that trying to make our parents responsible for our current problems is the fastest way to feel victimised and depressed while not solving anything at all.

I encouraged Kate to see her parents as well-meaning but fallible individuals just like herself. However, Kate remained doubtful. Then I talked to Kate about her husband and she said that he was generally a well-meaning man. Therefore, instead of going into the details of their squabbles I guided Kate into relaxation and helped her to receive a healing-symbol to overcome her resentments towards her husband. Kate received a red rose and I explained to her how she should visualise the rose in her heart and that the red-coloured light of the rose had a healing and loving quality that she should send to her husband.

When Kate came back after one week she told me that her relationship had improved but that she had had 'arguments in her mind' with me about the issue of not blaming her parents. However, she had known 'deep in her heart' that I was right. In that session I encouraged Kate to be more appreciative when her husband did something nice for her but also to insist that she had the same rights that he had.
Two weeks later Kate came back and told me that she hadn't had a single argument with her husband since she had come to see me. This was an enormous improvement. Even better, she had been able to assert herself and had managed to negotiate a good compromise with him over their long-standing issue of her going out. What's more, through practising her healing-symbol, a lot of love had arisen in her heart and she had fallen in love with him again and their sex-life had been rekindled. There was now a lot of good communication between the two and a willingness to work on problems rather than to argue about them. In other words, Kate's difficult marriage had been transformed into a soulmate relationship. But did these improvements last?

I had the chance to speak to Kate a year later and she reported that all the improvements with her husband had remained stable and satisfying. Occasionally, when things had become difficult again she had returned to practising her healing-symbol which had quickly helped her to re-establish harmony.

Everybody can achieve similar healing in their relationships by following the simple self-help exercises outlined in Tara Springett's books The Five-Minute Miracle and Soulmate Relationships.
Tara Springett holds an M.A. in Education and is a fully qualified psychotherapist. She has post-graduate qualifications in gestalt therapy, body awareness therapy and transpersonal therapy. She has worked as a drugs counselor, counselor for adolescents and general psychotherapist since 1988.
Tara has been a dedicated Buddhist practitioner since 1986. In 1997 she received encouragement from her Buddhist teacher to teach others. Tara has since taught on-going meditation groups and combines Buddhist wisdom and her experience in counseling when assisting her clients with their personal growth, self development & improvement.
For more info go to http://www.taraspringett.com/

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