How Do You Know When Your Boyfriend Is in Love With You?

Are you wondering if your boyfriend is truly, madly, deeply in love with you? Are you wanting to know for sure that he's as serious about you as you are about him? In this article, I'm going to talk about a couple of unusual ways to find out FOR SURE whether the man of your dreams is all that he seems...

Explore His Aura

We all have an aura; an energy field that surrounds us like a halo. For most of us, the aura is invisible, but to some people, another person's aura can not only be seen, but it can be "read": like the way you can tell that somebody is sick or healthy just by looking at them, emotional intuitives -- and people who are just psychically sensitive than others -- can tell certain things about a person's mental, emotional, and spiritual states by reading their aura.

It's been said that people who are depressed will have a dark, almost black, aura; that people who are passionate about something or someone will have a pure red aura; and that people who are jealous -- or are indulging in some other unhealthy emotion -- will have a dark green aura.

Whether auras are actually these literal "colors" or not is beside the point, though: what really matters is that there are people who can see, read, and interpret another person's aura, and in some cases, they can read the "reflection" of one person's aura (e.g., your boyfriend's aura) in another's (e.g., yours)! So, if your boyfriend truly loves you, an emotional intuitive will often be able to "see" the "reflection" of that love in your aura.

Read the Signs

We also all have an astrological sign, and a gifted horoscope reader can tell you a lot about yourself, or about someone else, or about a combination of the two (i.e., about your relationship with someone else) based on how your signs align (or don't!). Many people believe that we all have a soulmate; a certain special someone who we're meant to be with, perhaps even to fulfill our own destiny...

An astrological reading can show you things you would never have discovered in any other way, and can open the door to finding the love of your life, whether it's the man you're with right now or not. The fact that you're wondering if your boyfriend is truly in love with you, if he really feels as strongly about you as you do about him, indicates that -- at least on some level -- you have your doubts whether he's "the one." If that's the case, getting input from an objective third party can make a world of difference. I know it did for me...

And the same thing could happen for YOU!

But be careful; all readers are NOT equal in ability: the better the reader, the better the reading. I can honestly say that if you're feeling uncertain about your relationship right now, whether it's because you're wondering if your current partner is truly in love with you, or you're wondering how to tell if his feelings about you are as strong as yours about him, a love compatibility horoscope just might be the best present you could give yourself right now.

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Why I Can't Forget My Ex Boyfriend When He Has Moved On With His Life

Are you still in love with your ex-boyfriend? I found it difficult to shrug off the breakup and move on since I had feelings for my ex.
Even though I actually wanted to move on with my life, despite my best effort I found my self thinking about him. I was left to wonder, "Why in the world can't I forget my ex boyfriend".

Clearly, it takes time to accept that the relationship is over. It's natural to occasionally think about your ex after a breakup. However, if it starts to have a negative effect on your day, you need to put extra effort to steer your thoughts away from your ex boyfriend.

If your ex boyfriend has given a good indication that he has moved on, it's time for you to accept it. You have to respect your ex boyfriends wishes. That may not be what you want but you can't force someone to be with you.

There is no point hoping to get back together, when you know deep down that this is not what your ex wants. I know this may sound like heart piecing advice, but you have to hear it from someone! From my own experience, I realize that it's not as easy as the written word, to get your ex out of your mind!

Eventually, I realized that even though my ex boyfriend has moved on with his life, I was the one who was stuck, feeling miserable. How could it be that he is having such a wonderful life? Obviously, he does not think about me and I am still hung up on him. I still hope that we will get back together one day.

Why I can't forget my ex boyfriend
I realized that the more time I spent alone, I kept thinking of our happier times. It would then stir up all the emotions within me.

Honestly, as much as I hate to admit this in public, I actually liked thinking about my ex! So, I preferred to be alone, just so I can just think about my ex boyfriend.

It didn't stop there, there were more things I did to keep the memory of us alive,

1. I didn't collect all the photos in my apartment and put them away. Every corner I turned to I could find a picture of us. No wonder I can't let go of my ex boyfriend!

2. I received a locket necklace him, which I still wear. Then there's the loving teddy bear, which I keep close when I sleep.

3. I regularly checked my ex boyfriend's Facebook wall. I mainly did this to check what he was up to. Obviously, it was clear that he had moved on with life. I felt sad to know that he is happy without me. At the same time it was a good eye opener for me.

4. Then there was the travel route I take to my office. I intentionally take the one which goes through my ex boyfriend's apartment. May be I'll catch a glimpse of him going jogging or maybe he is walking towards his favorite coffee shop.

Writing and re-reading all this seems so pathetic. I was intentionally not allowing myself to forget my ex boyfriend. Perhaps, you are doing the same?

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